Is my kid being harmed?
Could someone be hurting, pressuring, or taking advantage of them? We take that possibility seriously without assuming the worst.
A little clarity goes a long way.
A calm place to make sense of something your kid said, saw, or did online — and decide what to say next.
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WHAT THIS IS
Understanding instead of guessing. Learning instead of ignoring.
Maybe it’s a phrase you keep hearing. A creator they follow. A message in a group chat. Or a change you can’t quite put into words.
Tell us what you noticed, or look up a term. We explain it in plain language, say what we can and can’t tell from the details, and offer a way to start a conversation.
No monitoring. No verdict on your kid or you as a parent. Just a place to begin.
THE QUESTIONS BEHIND EVERY ANSWER
Three fundamental questions behind every read.
It’s natural to think first about what could happen to your child. But a fuller picture also asks whether they might be hurting someone else, or themselves. We hold all three with care, not blame.
Is my kid harming someone else?
This can be hard to ask. Kids can repeat a joke, share a post, or join in before they understand the harm. Looking honestly helps you guide them, not label them.
Is my kid harming themselves?
Could what they are seeing or doing be hurting their own wellbeing? We help you notice the difference between a passing moment and something that needs care.
HOW IT WORKS
From “what is this?” to “what do I do?”
Tell us what you noticed
Write a few words about a moment, or look up a term, creator, game, or community.
Add detail if you want
A few optional questions help us be more specific. Skip them if you’d rather get straight to the answer.
Get a place to start
Read what it may mean, why it matters, one next step, and a way to bring it up.
WHY WE BUILT IT
Parents need context, not another alarm.
Online life is part of growing up. Sometimes it’s funny or confusing. Sometimes someone really does need help. It can be hard to tell which is which from one word, one video, or one conversation.
We built this at Override Labs, a nonprofit, to make that first moment less lonely. We won’t pretend to know your child from a few lines of text. We’ll give you context, name uncertainty, and help you take a thoughtful next step.
More about why this existsWHEN YOU’RE READY
You don’t need the right words to get started.
Start with what you’ve noticed. You can keep it brief, and leave out names or private details.
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